Dropping Hints
Briefly glance at him every so often. If he's already looking at you, he has taken interest in you. This method works better in room full of people.
See how he acts around other girls. If he is just as flirtatious and friendly, he may be playing the field a bit. If he is clearly reserving something special for you, it's a direct hit.
Intentionally do something that would be potentially upsetting to you. For example, pretend to fall over and act a little upset about it. If he is at your shoulder for the rest of the day, this proves he may be interested in you.
Tease him. If he teases back, tease him more. Playful bantering often occurs between lovers, as this is a way to cause laughter and happiness.
Smile at him. If he immediately smiles back, this is another sign that he might like you.
Talk about who you like (assuming that you like this guy/girl too). If he asks questions about your reactions to certain actions (ex: "How would you react if I did [insert action] to you?"), there's a possibility that he wants to know how you'll react to him doing something a little more personal with you.
Ask him who he likes. Usually best friends tell their friends who their crushes are. If he doesn't tell you or acts embarrassed, he may not want to admit his feelings to you. Keep acting innocent, and try to persuade him to tell you. For example, say something along the lines of, "Please? We're best friends. You know I won't tell anyone." However, avoid pushing him too hard, or he may grow uncomfortable.
If you do like him, try reversing the strategies listed to show you like him.
Tell him that you might be interested in him. Talk to him in private to see if he confesses his feelings for you.
Clues That He Might Like You
Look to see if he's looking at you every few minutes. If he's always looking at you, he might like you. If you're sitting next to each other, check out his body language. Is he sitting with his knees pointed at you? That's definitely a sign that he's interested.
If you both are in a group, walk a little ahead of them. If he follows you or walks faster to be next to you, he might like you. It's definitely a good sign if he's making a point to spend time alone with you.
Get someone to ask him who he likes. Preferably, one of the people in your group. Better yet, ask him directly! You don't have to wait for him to come to you.
Ask other people that hang out with you two if they've noticed any signs of him liking you.
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